Posts Tagged ‘Online Dominance’
The Secret to Successful Relationships
Monday, December 12th, 2011
Ever have the words, “Sure, no problem!” get extended to “…but you’ll pay for it!” When you meet someone for the first time, there’s a little process everyone goes through of assessing the other person and how you will relate to each other. If both parties are up front and honest in that process, you end up with a strong relationship, be it personal or professional. If not though, watch out! That’s when people can surprise you and end up costing you way more than you expected, whether through personal emotions, or money and time invested.
Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others. — Benjamin Franklin
Every relationship starts out with potential and branches out from there. Sometimes those branches lead to an amazingly productive and positive outcome, which is what everyone desires. No one goes into a relationship hoping it will fail! Where the bough breaks is when your purposes for the relationship are not aligned. From there, a power struggle of sorts ensues as each individual tries their best to get something from the other.
When meeting new clients, agents have an introduction period where they get to know and understand their new prospect, and with enough experience this is generally sufficient for your purposes. But what if the client isn’t entirely up front? What if the person just wants to go window shopping – next thing you have over invested your time driving him around just to satisfy curiosity. Or, perhaps you are working with a couple who as it turns out are at odds in what they are looking for in a house! Sometimes these things don’t become apparent until after you are already invested in the client relationship.
An easy way to avoid this is to create a simple needs assessment (read this as “Real Estate Relationship Readiness Assessment”!). As part of your interview process, have the individual complete it, or in the case of a couple have both fill it out separately then compare. By doing so, you are managing expectations – yours and theirs. This will allow you to keep the relationship on a productive and positive course by serving both the immediate need as well as giving you insight into future desires, which increases your ability to serve the client.
The tough part is when you have to pull out of a relationship before getting over invested. And let’s face it, it’s going to happen in life more than once. Once you realize you and the other person are not aligned in purpose, it’s very difficult to back track. To do so would be changing either yourself or trying to change the other person to suit. And that’s never a good thing for anyone.
So, go into all your relationships openly and honestly to get the greatest success!
Reconnecting with Momentum
Monday, November 7th, 2011
Let’s be honest here… We just simply can’t be 100% all the time. Whether due to illness, lack of sleep, stress, or even just plain don’t feel like it, sometimes our brains simply disconnect for a while. Fact is, humans sometimes need that “down time” to regroup and refocus. However, it can be really difficult to get back in the swing of things. What do you do to regain momentum?
The best way out is always through. — Robert Frost
One of the most basic laws of physics is that a body in motion tends to stay in motion while a body at rest stays at rest. So let’s say you have had a brain disconnect, that’s like you have come to rest. And that’s OK! As long as you don’t stay there. In order to get through it and become productive again, you need to move.
It doesn’t need to be a huge, monumental effort. One small step, one little thing, just do something to get into motion. Once that happens, you will find it gets easier to take another step, make another larger more meaningful move. Soon you will find you are back up and running full speed!
Outrageous!
Sunday, September 18th, 2011
Have you ever felt “stuck” in your business or life? If so (and frankly, most currently do on both counts) perhaps it is time to be, well… outrageous.
Outrageous is not about being goofy or tastelessly offensive for the sake of eliciting the biggest reaction from others. On the contrary, being outrageous is all about letting who we really are come out and shine for all the world to see —without concern or attachment to how others (even close others) see you.
It is no accident that some of the most successful people in the world are considered outrageous. My personal hero is Richard Branson of the Virgin group of companies. I can’t imagine anyone having more fun, while making more money, while changing the world for the better than him. Another favorite of mine is Rush Limbaugh. Regardless of your political leanings, you’ve got to admit that this guy (who I believe never finished college) does and says exactly what he wants and as a result attracts the largest radio audience in the U.S. and “Has more fun than a human being should be allowed to have!”
You see that’s the beauty of being your outrageous self. Doing so will attract far more people to you than any other way. Human beings are almost preternaturally attracted to those who have discovered the secret of just allowing the entirety of who they already are shine through —like moths to a bright flame.
For most people, being outrageous is the purest form of who they are, who they “be”. The jaw-dropping reaction we normally equate with “outrageous” is because almost everyone is so constrained in the way they live and interact that when someone does allow their true “outrageousness” to show, it is a shock to those who witness it.
I have Dalinian thought: the one thing the world will never have enough of is the outrageous.
~ Salvador Dali
Being truly outrageous in the manner described here takes tremendous courage and a willingness and faith to let go of all pretenses. Few are currently willing to do this which is the primary reason being outrageous will cause you to stand out incredibly. But that is just the tip of the iceberg. When you are ready to truly be outrageous, the world will unfold like a beautiful flower and you will surely wonder why you waited so long to be who you already are.





Whether people are just tired of moping about the economic downturn of the past few years or they’re sensing true change, it seems there’s an overarching sense of positivity for 2012… and that’s exciting! Of course just thinking positively is not a magical formula for boosting the economy, but it’s the actions that spring from a positive outlook that are agents of change.
Search-engine optimization. Who knew that these three little words could become so important to successful 
You do a lot of work to drive traffic to your website. Blogging, social media, SEO optimization, pay per click ads, postcard campaigns, drip messaging… It’s overwhelming and probably costs you a fair chunk of your income. Yet for all that, how many visitors land on your site once and for whatever reason, never come back? Well, now there is a way where you can follow up with your site visitors to remind them of your services, and even qualify those leads as you do so! The amazing thing is it’s very easy to do and costs far less than you think…

n you have 1,000,000 other things going on. Blogging is imperative in today’s real estate world, as it drastically helps with your SEO and can be fed to different places including your LinkedIn profile, Facebook profile and Twitter feed. Posting to your blog regularly will also define you as a credible source for community and real estate info in your area. If you’re already blogging regularly, or plan on starting, here are some great ways to build up an awesome following.
atters during time off, to prevent being bombarded with an unexpected workload upon your return. Luckily, our smart phones and other modern technology allow us to keep abreast of work progress while we are away.